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A few months ago, I wrote an article for Discover Magazines entitled, "Psychic - Science - Spirit Messages - How Do We Pick Up the Call?" In that article, I answered common questions about the afterlife that I have received over many years in working as an intuitive, therapist, and psychic medium. I shared how quantum physics and neuroscience supports psychic ability and our ability to connect nonlocally with the other side.
In this article, we continue to explore questions frequently asked about the afterlife and how we can connect to consciousness that transcends space and time.
I am not sure I believe in psychic mediumship. How do I know someone is not just faking it?
Just as in any field, we need to do our research and listen to our intuition. The word "psychic" means "of the soul:' You have a soul, so being psychic is your birthright. We are immortal and far more than what we can see in our 3D reality. One of the best ways to know if mediumship is real is to have your own personal and direct experiences with the afterlife. Many have felt, seen or heard from their loved ones on the other side. In addition, if you seek the assistance of a credible medium, you will be able to validate information that they provide and sense your loved one through their conveying personality characteristics, common phrases or even mannerisms.
Most people have the ability to connect with the other side.
Talented psychics and mediums seem gifted. Can just anyone connect with spirits on the other side?
Most people can connect with the other side. It is true that just like some people are born with an amazing singing voice, some people are born with more highly adept intuitive ability through DNA, but we can all develop it. Some environments augment intuition while others dampen it. Just as with any muscle, our intuitive intelligence, which is our highest level of intelligence, can be heightened through practice and focus. I have had very left-brained, analytical thinkers attend my intuitive/psychic-development classes who were astonished by what they knew intuitively without any way of knowing it through previous experience.
It seems like my toddler is connecting to my mom/ dad on the other side. Is this possible?
Yes. Young children are more open and curious. They are not yet exposed to preconceived ideas and belief systems that could thwart their natural intuitive and psychic skills. They do not have egos that worry about the judgments of others. I had an older friend tell me that when I was 3 years old, I was often talking to her deceased brother who had died when he was 3. Apparently, no one in her family ever spoke of his death, so she did not share this with me until I was an adult. It is important to teach children to trust themselves, what they are sensing and what their body is telling them. What you may think is their imagination may be their intuition.
How Can I Call the Other Side?
Believe - have faith that you will connect with your loved ones and Spirit. Have a childlike curiosity and sense of wonder. Trust what you receive and do not write it off as simply your imagination. I often ask my students to share what they are imagining when they are doing an intuitive exercise, and the information is typically a "psychic hit" that I or others can validate for them.
Raise your vibration. Remember everything is energy and you want to fine-tune the extraordinary instrument you are to tune in to the other side and pick up subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) messages. We have discussed how to raise your energy in earlier articles. Meditate regularly to expand your brain and gain greater heart-gut-brain coherence. Find a quiet place where you will not be disturbed. Relax to slow down your brain waves. Say a prayer first. I ask for Divine guidance to be present and set clear intentions with love and gratitude. Some people prefer to light a candle, dim the lights or wear their favorite crystal. Some may listen to soft music with binaural beats. You will soon develop a habit and ritual with your practice that works for you.
As stated above, have a clear intention of whom you would like to connect with on the other side and why. If not a loved one, perhaps it is an angel, scholar, philosopher or artist important to you. I had a client who was a rocket scientist have me tune in to Albert Einstein and ask specific questions, for example. I do not recommend using an Ouija board or going through a gravesite just to see who shows up. You would not just open yourself up to any and all strangers on planet Earth, would you? Then why would you try to invoke just any spirit, perhaps Earthbound, who happens to be hanging around? This is not a game. Be thoughtful about your purpose.
Connecting with a loved one who has passed can effectively take place immediately upon their passing.
How long after a person dies do we need to wait to connect with them?
You can connect with them immediately. They will often visit you when they pass or wake you up in a dream. Interestingly, a woman (and her adult on) called me on the phone when her husband was getting ready to pass on. She asked if l could tune in psychically to her husband to see how he was doing. I did so, and telepathically he said, "It suddenly became dark." I relayed the message to his wife, and she said her son had just turned off the lights in the room. I then heard her husband say psychically that his diaper was uncomfortable, and his wife checked to find that it was twisted. I continued to follow her husband psychically as if seeing his transcendence through his eyes. In my mind's ear, I heard him laughing playfully. He was so light, free and joyful! Jesus I embraced him (he was Catholic). He was elated with tears of joy as he was greeted by four children. He took his last breath and passed. The next day, the gentleman's wife called to thank me, and with cries of appreciation, she shared that she had had four miscarriages during their marriage.
I do not feel like I have lived up to the expectations of my parent(s). Are they happy with me about what I have accomplished in my life?
They want you to be peaceful and happy with yourself. Because "everything is illuminated" after death, spirits are fully conscious. They do not have an ego or judgment, only love for you. Some of my clients have even found reconciliation with an alienated parent after they pass. They do not care if
you have carried on the family name or finished the project you had intended to do with them. They empathize with you and support your growth and development. They want you to choose your own unique path and follow your bliss.
My parents died recently and I wonder if they were pleased with the service they held and how we distributed their possessions?
They do not have an ego, so they are not concerned about whether and how they are recognized or end-of-life arrangements. Instead, they are focused on their loved ones. They attend these gatherings in Spirit and want their loved ones to find peace and happiness. It is about the love and joy
that is shared. Spirits do not care if you sell their house. They do not live there! They want you to do what is best for you and will guide you as such. Spirits empathize with the pain we experience in discordant and difficult relationships. Loved ones on the other side will provide insight to help us empathize with one another and see other perspectives. They understand us without judgment and often will use humor to help us see our limitations, blind sports and opportunities.
When is my loved one going to pass on?
Although this question is beyond the scope of this article, due to the pandemic I am hearing this question a lot lately. My answer is that it is up to your loved one and their God when they will pass. It is their process. There is often a tendency of family members to tell their loved one near the end of their life, "It's OK, you can go now. You do not have to wait. We will all be OK:' The same message is repeated every day, wondering why their loved one is hanging on. None of us wants to be pushed or pulled to stay or go! Although such thoughts are typically well-intentioned, sometimes the anxiety of those grieving and the need for control blurs patience, faith and the ability to trust their loved ones' sacred process. And know that when their soul sheds its tired skin, they will be with you once again to whisper a sweet goodnight.
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Karen Storsteen, M.S., M.A., is an intuitive therapist, psychic medium, executive coach and public speaker.
She has been featured on ABC, NBC, and CBS, and has been a regular on FM radio.
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